Preparing to leave the country for two years is a lot more
hectic than I ever imagined it to be. My last month in the states was spent
traveling saying see-you-laters, shopping for unusual supplies, meeting with
donors, and spending time with friends and family. It seemed as though I did
not have a moment to spare. During my last two weeks in Houston, I began to
become very overwhelmed with all I had to do…cancel gym membership, alert the
banks of move, get last immunizations, get international driver’s license,
write countless thank you notes… the list went on and on. Also, my social calendar
was full to the brim with meals and outings with friends and family as my
departure date approached. I began to get stressed about being able to fit
everybody and everything into my schedule, but then a good friend reminded me
of the story of Mary and Martha in Luke 10:38-42. Martha was busy scurrying
about, trying to complete many tasks, while Mary sat at the feet of Jesus
listening to him, strengthening her relationship with Him. My friend reminded
me that people are more important than things. It was more important for me to
spend time with my friends and family than to make sure I had every last item packed. I asked God to help me to manage my time well, and to love others well
in the midst of my preparations for the move. I don’t know how this was
physically possible, but somehow I was able to see and spend time with almost
everyone I needed to before leaving (also with the help of my friends who threw
me an awesome surprise going away party). God is good. Yes, I got to Africa
missing a few items. Yes, I left a few tasks behind that my mom so graciously
offered to complete for me, but I’d rather have left some things that can be
replaced than to have lost time nurturing relationships, which cannot be regained.
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many
things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is
better, and it will not be taken away from her.” -Luke 10:41-42